I took him up to his room (so we could speak more privately, since DD was also home) and told him that I wasn't angry, that he should not be ashamed, that I wanted him to stop doing this and continue being private in what he does about his sexuality, and that I wanted him always to be able to talk to me about anything.įor his part, he was clearly willing to talk to me. I ask where the friend is and am told he went home (a couple blocks, he's allowed to go alone, although he left his stuff from sleeping over last night). Everyone was embarrassed and surprised, but I tried not to show it and told them to come meet me in the living room, giving them a chance to get decent and calm down a little bit.Ī few long minutes later my son shuffles in, blushing and staring at the floor. Forgive me if I'm rambling a bit.Įarlier today I was taking a box of Christmas decorations out to the garage and when I entered, I discovered my 11 year old son and his friend with their pants down, performing mutual masturbation on each other. I am a regular poster here, but I decided to post this anonymously because I've mentioned who I am on my normal account and this is of a somewhat personal nature.